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Sometimes we have to cry out all our tears,
To make room for a heart full of smiles (:
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Wednesday, April 02, 2008
A Woman's Weakness Tengok jer Kehidupan wanita modern atau wanita Muslimah Memang banyak dilamun contradiction Di satu sisi, ada yang serba kelebihan Di satu sisi, ada yang serba kekurangan And the overall picture? Seorang wanita (Muslimah) yang bertaqwa, shalihah, dan yang active menegakkan dan membangunkan syiar-syiar Islam Tetapi memperlekehkan kejahatan serta dosa-dosanya (of mouth, hearing, body and soul) Ataupun Seorang wanita (Muslimah) yang bersih dari segala dosa-dosa serta kejahatan tetapi dia merepehkan ibadahnya dan tidak active menegakkan syiar-syiar Islam Dan semua kesalahan wanita adalah kelemahan wanita A woman who bows at the dominance of a guy The same thing that makes a woman strong Is also her weakness Her need to nurture, which can be abused by her unwillingness to let her children mature at appropriate times Her need to love and share love, which men learned how to take advantage of millenia ago for their own short term advantage Her ability to multitask, which leaves her taken advantage of in the workplace When she is cast as the hardworking "hidden" partner of a man who reaps all the glory from her hard work Tell me about the traditional setup which says that women are not strong, men have domination Tradition always tries to make them insecure Even now-a-days women are emerging as strong individuals But still this tradition which has been established imparts a feeling of weakness in them And weakness really means a feeling of weakness which most of the times changes into a severe one When women are themselves the marginality of all limits Where lies their strength to go beyond the tensions in making things right? |
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When life knocks you down and out
That is where you ought to stay, and believe |